Funny Valentines

 

It’s something to watch a comic master do her thing.

At the beginning of our
cover shoot with this month’s cover subject, Samantha Bee, she struck a few
pretty poses and played along nicely. But as if by instinct, she soon
enough honed in on our main prop—a dozen roses—and milked them for all their
comic value. She even took a fake bite out of one.

I wouldn’t expect anything
less from The Daily Show’s Most
Senior Correspondent—and during our brief time together I got so much more,
including some thoughtful and funny musings on Occupy Wall Street, health care and
the overwhelming generosity of Americans. 

For more on Bee, a Canadian native turned Upper West Side mom of three, I’m going to steer you to the best
possible place: Heather Chaet’s wonderful interview with her
 

Much as Samantha Bee’s engaging
conversation flits between the hilarious and the serious, I think that one of
the strengths of this particular issue of New
York Family
is the varied mix of stories and themes. Above all, I’d
like to recommend the article on talking with your child about sexual abuse. Needless to say, that sounds like a heavy and difficult topic
but read the story; it makes a compelling case that there are ways to speak
about abuse that are age-appropriate and essential for helping children
 prevent any unhealthy touching from adults whom they might otherwise
trust.

Among our lighter fare,
we’ve pulled together a fantastic car seat guide; a neat fashion story
about stripes
for spring; and a helpful guide to a wonderful new
trend in the city: film series for families. And what can we say
about love that hasn’t already been said? I wasn’t sure but four NYC parents
did a terrific job sharing their thoughts, and six local experts
offered advice on how to make a marriage better.

As for myself, I’m going
on my 15th year of marriage, and 12th as a dad—two roles that have brought
untold blessings, lots of good times and laughter, and of course a fair share
of conflict, frustration and anxiety. I’m not sure whether I’ll step up on February
14th, but my own funny valentine deserves roses from me everyday. 

Happy February To
All, 

ERIC MESSINGER
EDITOR

emessinger@manhattanmedia.com

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<p>Dedimus Potestatem provides fun, engaging, academically challenging programs to students in primary, middle, and high school. Programs include Leadership, Debate, Model United Nations, Computer Programming, Financial Literacy, Filmmaking, Philosophy, Model Congress, Mock Trial, Etiquette, Bioethics, Stem and Bioethics, and more. We currently offer both virtual and in-person private, semi-private, and group sessions and after-school programs. Contact us to bring us to your school today!</p> <p>Sessions</p> <p>We currently offer both virtual and in-person private, semi-private, and group sessions as well as after-school programs. To register, visit <a href="https://www.potestatem.co/bookclassesnow" target="_blank" rel="noopener">https://www.potestatem.co/bookclassesnow </a>or email us at <a href="mailto:info@potestatem.co?subject=REGISTER" target="_blank" rel="noopener">info@potestatem.co</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/leadership" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Leadership: Middle School ages 10-13, High School ages 14-18</a></p> <p>This is a unique leadership course that gives students the skills they need to succeed in life. Using an activity-based syllabus centered around character traits most sought and admired in leaders (initiative, honesty, self-control, adaptability, empathy, persuasiveness, resourcefulness, diligence, tolerance, determination, generosity, punctuality, courage, reliability, endurance, deference, creativity and integrity) students learn how to deal with situations they encounter in life. These building blocks will ensure they grow to become the leaders so sought after by our burgeoning society. Our grading rubric was adapted with the permission of Neil Mercer, the Director of research and Head of Faculty at The University of Cambridge.</p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/little-leaders-prek-and-kindergarten" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Little Leaders: Primary School Ages 6-9</a></p> <p>Developed by former pre-school and elementary teachers, this ethics-centered program utilizes a play-based method to encourage students to explore and apply soft skills in their daily lives. While cultivating the skills they will need to build strong, successful relationships, they will learn how to find their voice and showcase themselves in the best way. Students will learn to communicate and negotiate so they can be better team leaders and team players. Students will learn how to deal with situations they encounter in life, such as bullying, cheating, conflicts between two or more parties, and more. The inculcation of these values in our children's formative years will ensure they grow to become the leaders so sought after by our burgeoning society.</p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/classes/beginnersdebate" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Speech & Debate</a> (competitive and non-competitive programs available)</p> <p>This online after-school program prepares students for formal and informal presentations. Participants learn to craft and present arguments and inform, persuade, and motivate an audience in a variety of ways. According to the English Speaking Union, debate is a natural fit for students and compliments common core standards. 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This class was built for students who wish to <a href="https://nhseb.unc.edu/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">compete in the middle or high school Ethics Bowl</a>. </p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/classes/money-matters-financial-literacy-for-kids-afterschool">Money Matters: Financial Literacy for Students</a></p> <p>The Money Matters course is built to help students manage their personal finances, from building credit and loan applications to interest rates and investing strategies. This class will cover the basics of financial health, savings, spending habits, and budgeting. After learning how to store, track, and spend responsibly, students will learn about risk management, APRs, and tax preparation. This class will use real-life examples and teach students how to set and achieve financial goals. This course is ideal for middle and high school students.</p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/stem-dna-ethics" target="_blank" rel="noopener">STEM and Bioethics: (Ages 10-18)</a></p> <p>Our STEM program will give kids the opportunity to think critically about science and society, and to practice communicating scientific topics in ways everyone can understand. To be a successful scientist in our modern world, one must not only have a broad understanding of scientific material learned at school, but also the ability to communicate effectively and share that knowledge with others. Each week of this program will build on the previous while also introducing new scientific topics for discussion.</p> <p><a href="https://www.potestatem.co/classes/virtual-after-school-etiquette" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Etiquette (Ages 5 and up)</a></p> <p>Due to increasing popular demand from groups and individuals, we have decided to offer our etiquette course as an eight week after-school class. 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Brick-or-Treat at LEGOLAND® New York Resort

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